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Advocating for Change, Even If You’re Not Loud
An introvert’s guide to championing a meaningful cause with steady impact There’s a common idea that advocacy belongs to the loudest people in the room; the ones who speak quickly, post constantly, and never hesitate to share an opinion. When you’re quieter by nature, it can feel like change is something you support from the sidelines, not something you lead. But advocacy doesn’t have to be loud to be effective. Some of the most meaningful change happens quietly, through stea
Nathalie Iseli-Chan
Jan 222 min read


Celebrating Wins When You’re Not Used to Celebrating Yourself
Acknowledging success, one uncomfortable milestone at a time As the year winds down, reflection is everywhere: what worked, what didn’t, what we’re proud of. I approach these moments carefully. I’ve always been quicker to notice what fell short or would need improvement than to name what went well. Looking back on this year, I see busy days, late nights, self-doubt, revisions, and the quiet question that never fully left: Who do you think you are to do this? I see moments wh
Nathalie Iseli-Chan
Jan 62 min read


Reinventing Yourself at Mid-Career
Change doesn’t always arrive as a sudden revelation. Sometimes, it creeps in quietly, like a whisper you can’t ignore. For me, that whisper returned after we relocated to Canada. I had put my teaching career on hold to care for our young children in a new country, far from family, relatives, or any support system. Writing had been on my mind since my teenage years, but like many, it faded into the background. A few years later, it came back, stronger, more vivid, and this tim
Nathalie Iseli-Chan
Dec 16, 20253 min read


From Classroom to Bookshelf: How Teaching Quietly Prepared Me to Become an Author
If you had told me years ago that I would move from the classroom to the world of publishing, I probably would have smiled politely… and changed the subject. Writing felt like something other people did; people with confidence, people who believed their voices mattered. I wasn’t one of them. Or at least, that’s what I thought. But here’s the truth I only understand now: every year I spent teaching was quietly preparing me for the work I do today as an author. Teaching is li
Nathalie Iseli-Chan
Dec 11, 20252 min read


Rewriting the Adoption Story: Embracing Complexity and Truth.
When I first became a mother through adoption, I dreamed of creating a home where meaningful conversations flourished; a space where the...
Nathalie Iseli-Chan
May 12, 20253 min read


"Do they know they were adopted?" Why and How We Talked to Our Children About Their Adoption Story
"Do they know they were adopted? ” is a question that has been whispered to us so many times I couldn’t even count, and for a very long...
Nathalie Iseli-Chan
Apr 7, 20253 min read


ADOPTION COMPETENCY - because love is not enough
"Don't worry, you can always adopt!" "You can just adopt; so many babies are waiting for a family." "If you have an infant, it's...
Nathalie Iseli-Chan
Mar 10, 20252 min read


An after-Valentine's-Day thought
Who hasn’t heard the saying, "Blood is thicker than water"? Many of us use it to justify unwavering loyalty to our families. However, the...
Nathalie Iseli-Chan
Feb 18, 20252 min read


Words Matter: Shaping Perspectives on Adoption
This year, my New Year’s resolution isn’t about the usual fitness goals or dieting; I am committed to something far more impactful:...
Nathalie Iseli-Chan
Jan 30, 20252 min read


When the New Year Doesn’t Start with Happy News: A Reflection on Grief
Every January typically brings joyful news and festive events as we usher in the new year. We hope for happiness, well-being, prosperity,...
Nathalie Iseli-Chan
Jan 13, 20252 min read


Turning Fear into Empowerment
Before we even began our adoption journey, I spoke with other adoptive parents who candidly shared the unique challenges they faced....
Nathalie Iseli-Chan
Dec 8, 20242 min read


(A very candid post) Am I a good parent ?
Every parent grapples with this question, and as an adoptive mom, I often find myself reflecting on it. When our children were placed...
Nathalie Iseli-Chan
Nov 27, 20242 min read


November is Adoption Awareness Month
November is Adoption Awareness Month. It is a poignant reminder of the intricate tapestry that each adoption story weaves. While it is...
Nathalie Iseli-Chan
Nov 6, 20241 min read

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